The Platinum Rule of Life

    The platinum rule of life undoubtedly is always to be thoroughly responsible for yourself.

It's not just like a story older than time. I just feel so confused and feel like talking about it. How come people nowadays tend to attribute their problems to others before introspecting themselves, I wonder. Isn't being responsible for everything related to ourselves the most bare-bone principle in life? We shall not first blame somebody when seeing the results that we're not satisfied about. We're all humans and humans make mistakes; we're all humans and humans ought to introspect. A person with no ability of introspection is pretty likely not only to affect himself in a negative way but also to have bad influence toward the ambiance of society. 

    It's pretty likely that  we as well did something wrong when the results are not satisfactory to us, for example, having inappropriate attitude, not working hard enough, having insufficient knowledge about certain fields...., etc. Even not being punctual counts. Staying in an environment with plenty of people like what I mentioned above is quite disappointing. As what my sister told me, the only thing we could do is try not to be one of them, it's not an easy thing though. As the proverb goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." But I believe if we could go over all these, we would be more insistent upon everything and be more focused on our aims. There're too many things happened behind-the-scene. Sometimes it's even hard to tell if a person's good if you're not hyperconcious enough. We shall just first look back and think carefully about all the things we did. With a wait-and-see attitude when things turn out of our expectations helps us not to bring the emotions in. Emotions are not gonna help in this kind of situation. It's never too late to blame others.

    Being unsatisfied all the time elicits negative emotions. Once the emotions turn to be complex, more problems come. What's the most important is that you would never get any solution. It's alleged that people in recent societies have pretty low pressure endurance... Probably it's all due to their low pressure endurance. Hum...emotions, low pressure endurance, arrogance, and ignorance are the drugs to bring all this consequences.... I would definitely regard all those people around me as the thing reminding not to follow the same old disastrous road. Everything teaches a lesson and I appreciate it :)  Thank you!