Why BADMOUTH?

    I've been thinking the reason people badmouth others lately and I eventually figured it out. Those who like to badmouth people, under observations, are always far behind whom they badmouth in certain fields. Instead of making themselves better, they prefer to badmouth in order to get the thing they do not have --- assurance. 

   To make it more straightforward, they are actually very disgusting to me. They behave and talk and deal with people in a very disguised way. They're never true to themselves, of course no to others either. As the idiom goes, "Like attracts like", their assurance is also built on echos of others. However, echos are echos. Those kinda people never make true friends. Therefore, the easiest way to tell is to see if their "close friends" change rapidly. It reminds me of Taiwan's political situation recently as well. It nearly has no differences so to speak. Everything turns to be cliche when the election's coming. People start to blacken their opponents' names with unscrupulous approaches. What for? In my opinion I believe they do such things only for its own profits and assurance. They look very confident and courageous on the surface while they are actually having no confidence at all.

    People, regardless of celebrities, politicians, officials or just people around us, usually badmouth when they find the situation profitable to them. For example, you would only see politicians unmask the scandals of their opponents during elections. And we civilians always need to wait for another four years to learn more about the scandals. How pathetic!  I have a dream! I have a dream that someday everyone on the Earth could be really true to himself and deal with people with honesty. That would be real perfect. But dream is a dream and the reality is always cruel, as perfection never exists. Having lower expectation toward things might be the main thing that I need to learn now :P Once my expectation's lowered, I would be much happier I guess :P